People Are Revealing What Happened After They Took Back Their Cheating Partner & It's Interesting, to Say the Least

This article appeared in instantlymodern.com and has been published here with permission.

For many couples, cheating will end the relationship rather quickly. But, that’s not always true. There are plenty of couples who give things another try after finding their partner had cheated. These people shared their stories of what happened in their relationships after infidelity struck and how their relationships went afterward.

Sometimes it Works Out

No one is their best self when they're going through a hard time. That's what led this couple to infidelity on both of their parts. This couple found that they both cheated at the same time.

While this clearly isn't good, this person said it served as a "snap back to reality." It seems that the two of them managed to move past this and build their relationship to an even stronger level than before.

Paranoia in the Wrong Place

Even if you try to move on, the anxiety that cheating can cause might live on in your relationship in unexpected places.

You'd think that if someone cheated on you, it'd be your paranoia that they were cheating again that would take a toll on the relationship. As it turned out, in this relationship, his own infidelity made him jealous and paranoid. This would really start to wear on the relationship.

A Similar Experience

When it comes to cheating, not everyone is happy with the results of trying to trust their significant other again, as we've seen. This person found themselves in an insecure position with a partner that wasn't as kind to them as they were.

It seems that this person's partner couldn't accept that he'd done anything wrong, which makes moving on nearly impossible. Even if you can't take the blame, to blame the partner that didn't cheat is a cold-hearted stretch.

Saving Time

When you take someone back when they've cheated, you're putting a lot of trust in them. In fact, it's usually much harder to trust them when they've done something so hurtful.

As for this person, their partner took that trust and abused it after cheating. While the OP was willing to take him back, this guy used that against them to make the transition from one relationship to another easier on him but much harder on them.